In life, we survived till now because of the choices we made.
Every Hour, every minute, every seconds, we are making a choice that will result in the difference in our life.We make the choice to think rather than to just slack through the dreams.
We make the choice to go to work rather than living life aimlessly away.
We make the choice to go out with the right person rather than living life without motivations.
Choices VS Optimism.
I guess I still have a long way to learn. A long way to go.
I will not regret the choice I take, the things I learnt and the mistakes I made.
I will struggle through no matter what happens.
Although I know there's this pile of shits stationed back home for me to clear.
I know I can do it. "
This is a quote i've got from a lovely lady's blog. I felt that it is very meaningful..... alot of times, we are the choices that we've made that becomes us...
She told me relationship is like a compass.. Have we ever wonder why compass oways point to the North?
you might have temptations, differemt factors that might affects u <--- that's the interpretaion of many directions...
but eventually, your heart is clear.
it;s always tht someone who u will think of, that someone you care, the someone u love.
that;s the North
Wow! its something which i never have thought of...
More advices from Friend of Mine.....
Friend: pls la. i think u need to grow up.. and learn that not everyone is on earth to hong u.. ur bf wants u to talk to him bcoz this is call communication
My thoughts - OMG yes, she is the first person that is oways so str8 and frank to me..but i guess this is good for me..! Yes it is a wake up call...
but guys usually do not bother to hong when they're angry
My thoughts - I oways want to feel loved and doted on.. noted...
to accept someone as he is.. is the greatest gift u can give him liao.. but if u really feel u cant live with it.. den i think its time to move on
My thoughts - I guess if he is whom i wish to grow old with, i need to give him the support he needs.
i think is bcoz u want to bluff urself that there's no solutions
My thoughts - Yes i am... wanted more attention but it turns out the bad way..and i often choose the easy way out without being responsible for my speech
there must be a middle ground only u can settle this
My thoughts - Compromise? Does it mean i got to give in?.. but as above, i need to accept him for whom he is
bcoz if he answer to u.. wont u flare up again?
My thoughts - Honestly, most of the time he explain things to me...but i never listened.. I need to stretch my ears and be a listener...
to him.. u're prolly just some shrew trying to get his attention.. no pt to answer u
My thoughts - Yes, can you imagine, I blasted his cellphone more than 60 times and when he dont answer, he mean business? I need to give guys more space to cool off..if there is times we cannot compromise, i have to walk away and do other things and think about it rather than blasting his phone to get his attention as our quarrels will become worst....
if u dun love urself first, u cant love others
My thoughts - I will need to build up more confidence in myself. I am who I am, and i build my own character, my life and my thoughts to be happy or upset... I'm not pretty but I'm presentable.. so what if people are better?.. We all are humans and have flaws... i NEEd to learn to love myself and stop comparing by size and weight or by how pretty or capable other people are..he love me for who I am, isnt it?....
SMS from another friend.....
- I guess I've hong you too much.... You need to learn to be independent, I can be there for you as a friend and oways will be. But it hurts to see you going in cycles and not realising that it is the same thing that happens over and over... Relook into ur life, improve on the areas to seek for growth. I cant bear to see you in this scenario but you'll need to learn to get out of the cycle.
Sms from another friend.......
- In life, there are many things around other than love. You are still young and PRETTY and its ur choice to be miserable or happy. Life is too short to waste...
My thoughts - How blessed am I, to be said as PRETTY! OMG OMG.. omost too happy till i faint liao...!
Honestly, i am really a blessed girl to have people around me to show care and concern..... Hiok came my hse to pei me throughout and went home only this morning..had fun doing facial and girl's talk.....
Thanks guys!... I will re-look into my areas of life..and YES i have alot to learn and grow... Being a responsible, happy adult... and the process of growing and improving will be on-going... Love you guys
yoohoo~ =x wad so happily in love with mr ray no time for u wor.. waiting for u to ask... read more
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